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writes:Ok this is a long story but I'll make it as short as I can.Ok when I was in year 10 (summer term) two of my really close friends started to randomly ignore me/refusing to talk to me/making snide comments/saying mean things that only I would understand why they said them. It made me feel small, insecure, and depressed. It was taken to a member of staff and it was sorted, and we became friends again and became much closer.Then in year 11 (summer term)it suddenly started all over again. I still don't know why they suddenly started. Then one of the girls left to go to another school in order to do the IB. Halfway through the christmas term she suddenly started to be nice to me and talking to me again, now bearing in mind the fact that she hadn't spoken to me since june of this year, is very odd. I don't know weather I should be her friend or not...I'm confused and I don't know what to do...I've had too much of these mental games...please help..I'm at a dead end...this is too much...
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reader, BellyDance  +, writes (12 December 2007):
 Friendship should always egual trust. Sounds like you've had enough of the childish games your "freinds" were putting you through. You don't need a friend who is willing to back-stab you at any second. And its not surprising that she is trying to talk to you now, after her "partner-in-crime" moves away. Move on. There's better people out there more worth your time.
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reader, shadytree +, writes (12 December 2007):
It must have been really tough to go through all of that. You could with all right decide that this girl is a bad cookie and just not trust her. Or you could show her a leap of faith and provide her with what is a real friendship. She can probably learn a lot from your sensitivity and attitude. Chances are she needs a friend more than anything and give her the chance that she never gave to you xxx
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reader, bqagirl2692  +, writes (12 December 2007):
 My advice is to not be her friend. She isnt a true friend to deserve your friendship anyways. A TRUE friend would never betray a friend. She is a hipocrite and a two-faced. If your sick of the mental games then you have the choice to either let it continue or end it. I think you should end it. Find better friends who wouold treat you with respect and NEVER put you low. Good luck!
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