A
female
age
22-25,
anonymous
writes:My bf and I have been together for almost 5 yrs. We go to colleges near each other and he stays w/me almost every night. The problem for me is I feel like I am the stronger one in the relationship almost all the time. I want to feel taken care of once in awhile. His mother is still very involved and calls him constantly wanting to know about every test he takes, etc. This really bugs me. We drove home yesterday and our families met at his house for dinner. His mom made it clear that she expects him to stay home all break to hang out with them. The phone rang and he took it into the other room. It was his roommate wanting him to drive to his house to ride dirt bikes. He acted like this was a big secret. We had just driven 4 hours home and he never mentioned it. Why? I don't care. I want him to have guy time, but why act so sketchy about it. I can see him being worried about his mom getting mad, but why would he not mention it to me? Should I be concerned?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2008): Hi Hunny,
His mother has overprotected him and probably done everything for him sweetheart that its the only way he knows, He probably thinks women in general are like mum, No you shouldnt be worried about your relationship Yes you should be worried about how this has affected him for future i.e marriage. You need to talk with him and try to explain that things are not the same as they are with his mum with you, you are two different people. It needs to be spoken about now so as you can get on and he understands that not all women are the same, He has been brought up this way, And I bet she wants to no everything so he just trys to hide certain things as she has probably had ago at times so its easier for him to avoid any confrontation. HOPE YOU SORT THIS OUT LOVE TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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