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anonymous
writes:Two weeks ago a friend stayed at mine, we slept together, she is not on the pill so we used a condom, wanting to play it safely I didn't even cum inside the condom whilst I was in her, we had been messing around before and I had been fingering her for ages. I had masturbated about 3 hours beofre whilst in the shower and I'm sure that there was no sperm on my hands or penis when I left the shower.I raised my concern with her and she told me she was "due on" the day we had sex and that she came on the day after.Should I be at all worried that she may be pregnant? I know this sound stupid but I just don't want any kids with her....Thanks in adavance for your help
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks to everyone who wrote a response. She was due on yesterday but did not come on, she does not keep track of her cycle so it could be normal. She has had period type pains now for five days which is unlike her, she took a pregnancy test saturday morning and it was negative. SHoudl I still be worried or not? HelP!!
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reader, Sandman  + ♥, writes (10 March 2008):
 Two people have already said it - but if you're that hung up on having a child with her, you shouldn't be having sex with her. Point blank.
But shouldn't be pregnant. It seems you took all the necessary precautions to make sure pregnancy would not come out of your actions. Seems like you did it responsibly.
Hope this helps.
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reader, Annalisa +, writes (6 March 2008):
 You have nothing to worry about, but if you are so worried about running the risk of her becoming the mother of your kids, why are you having sex with her???
You might just be friends with benefits, but do you know how wanderful it is to look into the eyes of the person you're making love to and feel prepared to deal with any consequence of your act, because you think they are just such a wandeful person, you'd be proud to call them yours?
Anyway, if she's had a period, she isn't pregnant.
All the best!
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reader, love-him +, writes (6 March 2008):
 HEY!!
You used a condom, you should be safe, and is there a particular reason you dont want to have kids with her? if you are feeling that certain then dont have sex with her.. tell her to take a test just to make sure..
GOOD LUCK!! Feel free to mail me at any time x x x
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