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Should I be at all worried that she may be pregnant? I know this sound stupid but I just don't want any kids with her....

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Question - (6 March 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 23 March 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Two weeks ago a friend stayed at mine, we slept together, she is not on the pill so we used a condom, wanting to play it safely I didn't even cum inside the condom whilst I was in her, we had been messing around before and I had been fingering her for ages. I had masturbated about 3 hours beofre whilst in the shower and I'm sure that there was no sperm on my hands or penis when I left the shower.

I raised my concern with her and she told me she was "due on" the day we had sex and that she came on the day after.

Should I be at all worried that she may be pregnant? I know this sound stupid but I just don't want any kids with her....

Thanks in adavance for your help

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008):

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Thanks to everyone who wrote a response. She was due on yesterday but did not come on, she does not keep track of her cycle so it could be normal. She has had period type pains now for five days which is unlike her, she took a pregnancy test saturday morning and it was negative. SHoudl I still be worried or not? HelP!!

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A male reader, Sandman United States +, writes (10 March 2008):

Sandman agony auntTwo people have already said it - but if you're that hung up on having a child with her, you shouldn't be having sex with her. Point blank.

But shouldn't be pregnant. It seems you took all the necessary precautions to make sure pregnancy would not come out of your actions. Seems like you did it responsibly.

Hope this helps.

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (6 March 2008):

love-him agony auntHEY!!

You used a condom, you should be safe, and is there a particular reason you dont want to have kids with her? if you are feeling that certain then dont have sex with her.. tell her to take a test just to make sure..

GOOD LUCK!! Feel free to mail me at any time x x x

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