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Should I ask this girl out? She's three years younger than me.

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Question - (1 August 2008) 7 Answers - (Newest, 5 March 2009)
A male Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Alright... I'm 16 and I'm kinda into this girl who's 13.

Should I ask her out? or is that wrong?

Or maybe I should wait?

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A male reader, gjhsdjhd United Kingdom +, writes (5 March 2009):

i'd say go for it. i am in the same situation u are in. i have a crush on someone who's nearly 3 years younger than me to. After all i don't think 3 years is all that much anyway. If you have confidence and like her and know she like u go 4 it mate. i would have done the same a while ago but i have not got much confidence in myself to ask my crush out.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2008):

I was in the same position, but she was just turning 14. If you like eachother, it is fine, its perfectly legal.

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A female reader, PsyCookie United States +, writes (2 August 2008):

PsyCookie agony auntI'd say go for it, but as long as you don't do anything more than just kissing and holding hands. Remember that anything sexual related is illegal at her age and you will pay a heafty fine (possibly jail time and branded a sexual predator).

But before you go for her, make sure she likes you back because I bet it will be awkward between the two of you if you got mixed signals.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2008):

I'm 18yrs old, I remember being 16 very well and yes it's not right for you to date a 13yr old. As you well know, three years in teenage years is massive, I mean it's huge. You two are on diffrent paths, in the UK you be in college and she just be starting out in high school. You need to find a girl your own age

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A female reader, summer08 United States +, writes (1 August 2008):

hey. i say go for it. my boyfriend is 18 and im 15. and 2 be honest...ud never know there is an age gap....we 4get ourselves. good luck.

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A female reader, ClaireAndJamieXX United Kingdom +, writes (1 August 2008):

ClaireAndJamieXX agony auntJust go for it if its what you want! its not that big an age gap really and girls mature around 3 years faster than guys so maturity wise its ideal. Just make sure that you really like this girl and are not trying to take advantage of her otherwise ignore peoples comments as it only matters to both of you at the end of the day. If the age gap really makes you feel uncomfortable just wait or move on especially if you want to get a bit more involved as thats illeagle untill she is 16 anyway good luck Xx =]

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2008):

If you like her and you think she likes you, then why not?

I say go for it... 3 years isn't that much of an age gap.

:)

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