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Should I ask my best friend to have sex with me???

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Question - (29 August 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 August 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 18-21, anonymous writes:

Okay. When I was in a part relationship with this girl we were having a bit of "play" on webcam and she ended up going completely naked for me.

She is 2 years older than me but I have very strong emotions for her.

Unfortunately, she now has to work a lot and we have lost contact but I really miss her even though I am moving on to other girls.

Right, now I an going to get down to my question. I have recently been thinking sexual thoughts about her as I can remember what she was like naked. I am a virgin but I have always wanted to lose my virginity to her, and she said she wanted to lose it to me aswell.

I don't know if I should ask her to have sex with me just because that is what we both wanted or if I am wanting it because I haven't ever seen another girl naked.

I suppose, what I'm asking is...should I ask her to have sex with me? And if so...how???

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2009):

I am 16 tomorrow just so you know. Also, I am the guy who wrote this :P

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2009):

I am 16 tomorrow just so you know. Also, I am the guy who wrote this :P

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2009):

I think that before u decide to ask her you should think about what you like best her personality or her body. I know your first reaction to that will be to say it's her personality but think about it carefully. If it's her personality definately, then let her know that you like her in that way, stop getting involved with other girls, get a backbone and ask her out! Then when you're boyfriend-girlfriend you can start thinking about having sex.

My boyfriend is two years younger than me and in a few months I will be 16 and legal and he has asked me to have sex with him then. I told him that I wanted to but I needed to wait until he was legal aswell and that I would definately wait for him. I don't know about this girl but she might also think that it is important to be legal first.

Goodluck and plz let me know how it goes and if my advice was good!!!

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