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writes:Ok, so i've been texting a guy for the past 3 months, and still haven't had time to hang out- But, we've really gotten to know eachother. We've talked about every imaginable topic and still no sure sign of whether he's into me or not. The thing is, he's very shy, never had a girlfriend, and very busy. I don't know what to think when he is so open with me, but never really clear on his feelings. i don't know how to ask him, because he's a good friend and i don't want to scare him away. He's leaving for college in 2 months, so i don't want to miss an opportunity. Should i just ask him straight up if he's interested? Or should i let it stay how it is? And if I do ask him, how can i do it without making a big scene if he says no? Oh, another thing- i've never had a bf, and he's never had a gf... so we're both inexperienced. That's why i'm so clueless. Please help! i don't want to make a fool out of myself... :S
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reader, dramaqueen123  +, writes (6 July 2010):
 Hello.Okay, asking this dude straight up may work, but really, if he cant make time for you is there any point in even asking? Someone once told me that if a guy wants a girl, they go out and get them. Not sit on their backside's all day texting the girl. (Okay, so i added that last bit, but you understand me...i hope.)Even though this guy sounds nice, (and even if he is shy) i personally dont think he's that into you. I hope you arent offended by this, as there are plenty more fish in the sea. Another thing is this: Texting? Im sorry but thats an easy way to lie, dont you think? What if this guy isnt even being honest with you in his texts? I may be asking more questions than i am answering, but if i were you i would go looking for someone who you have spent some time with and like as a person, not as a 'cyber-pal.'Thanks for your time. (If you read this.)
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