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Should I ask her to have sex?

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Question - (23 February 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 24 February 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have asked out a girl at my school, we're both 14 and if she says yes I want to ask her if she will have sex with me. Will she think it's too soon? If so should I ever ask her. But I cant help it, i masturbate over her 3 times a day and have fantasies about me and her in kinky sex. Please help! ASAP!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2010):

I think you should keep masturbating. This girl is only 14 and could be scared off. There is plenty of time for sex later down the track. Keep it real and don't rush it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2010):

no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! wait until you've been going out for at least six months- Six=Sex -when you reach the point to ask her, if you don't listen to my first advice, make sure your'e at least going out and drop a hint a couple of times first...be careful or you'll get a bad reputation and lose the oppurtunity with other gals.

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A female reader, marie jane renshaw United Kingdom +, writes (23 February 2010):

marie jane renshaw agony auntno defanitly do not have sex you r both far 2 under age and if u both wait till u r legal 2 do it u can make it really special and it wud be right, you should never rush in2 sex because 9/10 ppl regret havin sex at a young age and wished they had waited. as for ur sexual activity on ur own, maybe you should speak to ur doctor about how u r feeling because sometimes talking 2 some1 helps get it out ur system

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2010):

I think that is much too early to have sex, and she's going to feel like you're coming onto her too fast. If you really care about her, you'll wait for her and respect her. Don't ask her just yet. Your fantasies are normal, you can't help them. But she's going to want to know she's respected and in good hands first before you go any further. Hope this helps!

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (23 February 2010):

Apart from being illegal, it really is too soon. Keep those hormones in check young man and wait until you're in a good relationship and you're of age so you don't get arrested.

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