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Should I ask her out or should I just keep it as is and just stay friends?

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Question - (20 February 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 27 February 2011)
A male United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

So there is this girl. Her name is Charla. I treat her like a sister and she looks up to me like a brother. She's super gorgeous but she is 14 and I am 16. She's turning 15 in April so we are aren't even two years apart. But I am starting to have feelings for her and I don't know if I should tell her. I tell her almost everything already. I don't actually have a sister so it's been nice having her to talk to. I just need some advice on what to do. Should I ask her out or should I just keep it as is and just stay as friends?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2011):

Making the transition from friends to boyfriend girlfriend is very difficult. The first thing I suggest you do is try to figure out a couple things about the relationship. Firstly, pay attention to how she responds to you -- does she laugh at your jokes, hit you playfully, or flirt in a way she only does with you? Secondly, you need to think long and hard about how much you like her...if the novelty is just going to wear off after a couple months, you may have crossed too many lines to go back to being just friends again. Thirdly, if you don't know yet how strong your feelings are, I suggest you wait. Once you cross out of the friends zone, it's very hard to turn back. Is that a risk you are willing to take? I would suggest that you consider all those elements very carefully before making any decisions...

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