A
male
age
36-40,
*amascreen
writes:1. Currently dating a girl for 14 months.2. Dated in the past but had major bumps, those were worked out and then got back together. 3. Major bumps: her communication with her ex during our first trial and family/cultural/religious differences. 4. She is a great person with a kind heart. I predict she will be very successful and wealthy in the future due to her intelligence. She can overcome any difficult situation and has a vast amount of patience. 5. Therefore she is not flawed by any means and I personally do not have anything against her. In fact, I admire her for who she is. PROBLEM: Recently I have been finding myself less attracted to this girl. It is a mixture of both emotional and physical. I find that the spark does not exist anymore. I find it difficult to even say "I love you". I have very little to no desire to have sex with her. Unsure if I should be honest with her and break-up or perhaps try to reignite things? I am personally leaning towards breaking up as I find forcing myself to be nice over being honest will hurt us both in the future. I would like some female input please.
View related questions:
got back together, her ex, no desire, spark Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2012): Definitely you should tell her bye as soon as possible.
Why? although it will hurt her, but when you tell her out loud your no longer in love with her, the easier for her to move on. Your giving her a favor for future more HEARTBREAKS from a guy like you, who changed, all of a sudden..
She doesn't deserve you, she deserve better.
So break her heart now than later. Its disgusting to see a guy forced to be with their gf out of mercy. Its unfair...
Good luck...
|
