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writes:My gf says am not payin her any attention and that one day i would regret it...now ever since we met i have been there for her emotinally and all the rest of it and lately i've realised that she 's up late at nights doing god knows what.dear readers i would like to know if this a sign of her cheating on me or what, because i stil dont believe that she would do such a thing like that to me Reply to this Question
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reader, GrimmReality  +, writes (31 July 2009):
 Well telling you that you would regret not paying attention to her is not a real healthy way of communicating in your relationship,
But unless you can give us some kind of idea what she is doing at night(porn sites, secret liasons, crime fighting in a cape) how can we know? I will say that if she is warning you about not paying attention to her, your choice is to either do it or don't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2009): You are too insecure Buddy!
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reader, kayla20  +, writes (31 July 2009):
 the only reason girls cheat is because they feel unloved or there is a lack of affection or they just arent happy so there is a chance your gf could be looking else where ut i wouldnt jump to conclusions but she has given you a warning in some way that this is her intention if things continue.try and be more affectionate with kisses and cuddles treat her take her out make her feel wanted and loved and you shouldnt have a problem
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2009): How in hell can anyone reading your question have the faintest idea whether she's cheating or not? So she stays up late at night. So do I. I seldom get to bed much before midnight - so I ask you, do you think I'm cheating?
The best person to ask is her.
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