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writes: My girlfriend is attending a wedding with her ex boyfriend without me. She feels too uncomfortable to include me. What should I be thinking?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2005): She is not serious with you, her ex-boy friend is more important than you. Why someone would take their ex to a wedding? Big red flag !!!!. Is she pround of you or what?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2005): Obviously, something has occurred between you and her to cause this unusual behaviour on her part. It's almost like she is delibrately "on purpose" doing this to cause you hurt and pain. But why? You are not giving us enough information. What she is doing is totally disrespectful to you and very necessary. If you are the main guy in her life, then you should be by her side, not the ex b/f. I certainly wouldn't be calling her your girlfriend...sounds like she made her choice by dumping you to take the ex b/f to this gathering. Time for you and her to have a long, talk..you need to find out where you stand in the relationship with her and find out 'why" she is being so disrespectful to you.
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reader, auntiebunny +, writes (2 August 2005):
 I wouldn't even waste time thinking!How horrible for you. Have you any idea where this discomfort stems from? If not then I can see no excuse for this behaviour and would find it completely unforgivable.I wish I could see a positive solution, but from what you say I really think you'd be better off without her. x x x
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reader, becky05 +, writes (1 August 2005):
If I was you I'd be very angry and hurt.
Are you not good enough for her to take to the wedding?
If she felt to uncomfortable to include you then she should have gone alone.
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reader, Mizz-Experienced +, writes (28 July 2005):
If your girl friend is taking her ex to a Wedding that kind of still means she loves him more than you and is willing to try and patch things up with you and if is does work out with him then she'll probably dump you and move in with him but, If it doesnt work work out with him then she'll still have you to come back to. I personally think you should move on and find someone who will take you to the wedding not her ex.
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