She's saying that my boyfriend and her had sex when they didn't!!!

A female age 18-21, *ennayyyCx3 writes:

Basicly my boyfriends ex is telling everyone that they had sex and they didnt even!. (its really out of the blue since they broke up a year ago and plus she has a boyfriend) Ive talked to my boyfriend about his past "relations" with her and it was just oral. Like you can be like "oh hes just lying to you they probably did" but im million percent positive that they didn't. My whole class at school was arguing with me that they did cause she said so and it really put me in an awkward position because it looks like that my boyfriend is lying to me and that we dont have a deep relationship when we really do..yanno what im saying? I did get mad, not because i believed it, but because the girl is trying to inch back into his life(WHILE SHE HASSSSS A BOYFRIEND) and it just makes me mad that someone could think they could have that type of power over myyy man. (theres more to the story to make that statement true) so yea. Should i talk to her? and if i do i want to be really mature about it and make her look like an idiot..like honestly do i really need to give her a sexual education class and be like "THIIIIS is sex..THIIIIS is NOOTTT sex". So any advice from you guys on what to say to her?

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