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female
age
18-21,
anonymous
writes:hello everybody...im in a relationship for the last 5 months and me and my girlfriend spend every day together i love her to bits but we have silly arguments everyday and i crack up when she chats on-line because its like she is a different person and im scared of loosing her to the internet chat rooms.... i dont control her but she thinks i do ...we have a few trust isues as at the start of our relatonship we both cheated.. how can i make her see that i would like her to make her decions as a couple not just her... any advise people???
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reader, michelleAKAmandi  +, writes (3 October 2008):
 Hey there,
If you mean she's saying things that are not true about herself and such, then she's possibly hiding and pretending to be someone she'd like to be and isn't.
If she is saying things that don't seem to be something that would come from her, then maybe it IS her and things she likes that you haven't realized.
Chat rooms can be fun because you don't have to show your true self or they can be fun because it's easier to chat/talk there more often with a busy life. So it's all in why she is doing it. If you think she is having sweet talk with someone on the net, ask her about it.
I'm not able to answer how you can make her see that you would like decisions to be made together, because I'm not sure what decisions you are speaking of. You can always just tell her... talk about it with her.
Do you feel she is not acting as a couple? Making decisions on her own as a single person would, without consulting you about things?
Michelle
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