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She's not putting big efforts into the relationship. Should I be worried?

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Question - (3 February 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 3 February 2007)
A male United States age 36-40, *oondock001 writes:

Okay this is my first time actually asking for help on the site let alone the net, but I'm really troubled by relationship and i need some answers or advice.

I've been in a long distance relationship for over 3 years now. I've broke up with her two times and got back together with her over the years.Recently i just got back with her because i was afraid of losing her. I finally realized she was my true love, yet something strange was going on. She's been acting like how i use to when i didn't put effort in the relationship. I've noticed a big change in our daily phone conversations we use to talk whenever possible but now it's at night, then now she's going out more with her friends more then she use too. Also I've confronted her with the question " Are you seeing someone else other then me? " She answers no..should i believe her? Also she said she wanted a "break" i didn't understand and she explained that we were going out but not at the same time what in the blazes dose that mean?!And another thing she always use to tell me that she loves me but now iam the one telling her that. What should i do? any advice that you can give me is much appreciated.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2007):

well it all seems a bit of a muddle to me! i wish you luck but its really up 2 u if shes being distant maybe you shud rethink give her time but let her know tell her how u feel best of luck

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