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She's happy, then distant, and still not interested in sex...

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Question - (28 February 2005) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 May 2007)
A , anonymous writes:

my partner has only had sex with me once in last 3 months. it has been initiated a few times by her but then she stops and says she cannot carry on. Says she has gone off sex and i dont know whether it is off me or off sex?!

we have been together 2 years, live together but it worries me that this is happening. She is happy one day and seems distant the next. i am not sure if she is with me because its easy, and far more complicated if we were to break up. Is a women (she is 24)not having sex with her partner common? She used to always be keen.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2007):

i have left my partner of 24 years 2 days ago, this was mutual between us after arguing because she didnt want to talk and get things sorted out , i was getting very depressed by her ignoring my advances over the past year, i used to think it was me, not thinking she was distant and not interested in sex.

after asking her "she said that, if she didnt want to she didnt have to make love"

i am upset that she never openly discussed her problems and thus she exploded now and again like a volcano.

its been un bearable last 5 years for me if there is any advise i would give you is walk away while you have dignity and unless your too old someone must be out there for you

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A reader, pops +, writes (29 June 2005):

Run /baby, Run ! Get as far away from her as fast as you can. She has serious emotional problems that you can't solve, and she needs professional help. Its hard to break up, but this lady will be no good for you until and if she resolves her emotional problems. pops

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