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writes:dear all. thank you for helping me out in the past. but this one i can't get my head around.theres a lady that i like. we met. physical attraction was ok, but everything else was spot on. i have never laughed so much in my life, felt so at ease. its like there have been things missing form different relationships over the years and finally. i find it in this one lady. She is pretty mixed up tho. tells me one thing then weeks later its different.the last one is i was told to e mail her, text when ever, i did, now i'm getting a bollocking for too many??????i chatted on the phone last week with her and said that i cant stay in touch. i see her more than a friend. the following morning, i was bombarded with loads of texts, e mails.ugh!!!!! i felt sad for saying it but as there was no relationship i needed to. it felt worse than actaully splitting with someone i love??she still loves her ex from 7months ago.he went off with someone else. i told her that she deserves trust, honesty. help!!!!!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (26 November 2007):
 If she's giving you mixed signals, that can be because she is unsure about what to do (most likely) or she is playing games with you (not so likely, but it happens). In either case, you need a clear "yes", or a clear "no". If she won't say a clear "yes", then assume it's a "no".
Stay away from her. If she talks to you, ask her to make her mind up. If she won't, then ask her not to try to communicate with you again.
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reader, love-him +, writes (26 November 2007):
 Hey sugar, this woman needs to leave you alone now, as she has acting so strangely. You need to let her know how you feel :) I hope you are ok and i wish you luck :) Feel free to mail me about anything x
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