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writes: I have a friend that I have known for about 8 years, we have been on and off more off but close friends. we can talk about anything. I have known her and stood by her in several marriages and some boy friends. A few weeks ago we were out for dinner like we often do. We were discusing christmas when she asked me what I wanted! I told her a good woman, She asked if I had given up on her, She had stated over the past few year that she did not want to ruin a great friendship. I told her that I would love for that to happen, and if thats what she wanted stay with me for the night, We were together for three nights. As long as we have known each other slept together before she has never kissed or been as passionate as she was then. We have decided that this is what she and I want. She wants to take it slow! We we talking about a week ago and for the first time in all these year she told me she loved me, I think finally saying it has scared her. I know she means it but I think her subconsioce is playing with her head. Any advice for me on how to get us by this. I try to give her the space she needs. With that kiss that first night I don't think she knows what she has done. I know it will take time, I just don't like having to pay for all the crap from the other guys. Other than get out now! what advice has anybody got?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2007): Wow a second chance with an old love? Sounds like you are on the right track, I haven't got any magic formula for this, but just keep the lines of communication open and see how you both feel, spend some time together doing some pleasureable things other than sex and talk about what you both want....that's all I got, sorry.
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