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writes:I like it when my girl wears semi sheer bathing suits to the beach. Or even in the hot tub with friends. We experimented with cutting out the lining on a few pairs, and it seems to work well -especially with darker suits as her bits are then only slightly noticeable and it's not blatant in your face.She is only so/so about this. I am not sure if she does it solely to humor me and gets nothing out of it. Or, if she gets a little thrill too.Do any ofnyou girls do this? Would you if asked by your man? Would you find it exciting, or just demeaning or "objectifying"? Reply to this Question
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (29 July 2010):
 Would be OK with me personally but it depends on the company and whether she is comfortable with it. Have a talk with her about it!
Probably not the best idea in public places though, unless you really want to tick people off. I mean, I've sort of been "out there" though not in quite the same way, and I assure you, a lot of people are NOT comfortable with a woman pushing her sexuality into their faces.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (29 July 2010):
 I would feel indecent and I would feel really uncomfortable if I had a boyfriend who asked me to do that. Yeah, I know in Spain that guys wear speedos, but that leaves SOMETHING to the imagination. Sheer bathing suits... her junk is visible to the whole world. I feel like she's uncomfortable. Nothing wrong with nudist beaches, but sheer bathing suits at a regular beach or pool are obscene...
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reader, SallyR87  +, writes (29 July 2010):
 I do a similar thing for my guy - lacey underwear in the hottub while his friends are over. (using the excuse that I can't find my swim suit) Some guys might get angry or jealous but it turns him on knowing his buddies are leering at me and it turns me on knowing he's turned on. Discuss it openly and honestly with your girl and if she's cool with it then it sounds like your on to a good thing. Communication can solve anything.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (28 July 2010):
 I wouldn't do it out of respect for whoever else will see it. But in private with my man and I, I wouldn't mind. I even went to a nudist camp with my boyfriend and we both enjoyed it. But showing myself off to people who are not interested I see as offensive to the others.
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