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writes:What does it take to get over a 3 and a half year long relationship?She was my everything and she found it so easy to just take every shred of respect and caring for her and throw it away. i was willing to do anything for her.. And she just met some guy and slept with him after only a few days of knowing him. How can i forget her? Reply to this Question
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reader, Advice_man +, writes (6 November 2010):
 That's a very good lesson you learned there son. Now you know how manipulating and deceiving some women can be so next time be wise enough not to invest EVERYTHING in your woman, and if you decide to do so, be sure what you are doing. Meanwhile i agree with what "aunt honesty" above is recommending. Best of luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010): Been in this situation many times. My advice is just don't talk to her.... ever. That way you will get over her much quickly. She will realise what she lost in time and that will come back to haunt her. Don't wait for it to happen but she will proberbly contact you in time and apologise, move on. Believe me, worse things can happen. My last girlfriend left me for a married man and it was the best thing that ever happened to me knowing I did't miss out on much.
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reader, lamee  +, writes (6 November 2010):
 awwh i think u should let her go trust me,, its going to be hard but u should but ur self first ,, she hurts u ,, she left u,, just let her go ,, i really feel u i had the same thing 4 months a go and look at me now i don't even remember how he looks like,,get ur self busy and hangout with ur friends try to have fun do stuff u always wish that u could do or maybe work on ur life scores ,, love ur self and believe deep down in ur heart that u always come first,,its all would be going,, and she well come back after he leave her and she well find u more stronger then ever,,, my heart with u good luck
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reader, LovelessAct1 +, writes (6 November 2010):
That's no easy thing to get over, my friend. I've seen it many times before and I'm sure its done terrible things to your self-esteem. But here are some things my buddies have done when faced with similar scenarios.-Get rid of everything that reminds you of her. Don't go throwing our your TV just because she used to watch it with you, but get rid of the pictures, letters, cards, gifts, etc that are plaguing your home. If there are some things you know you may want later but just can't stand to look at right now, simply put them in a storage space so that you never come across them until you're over it.-Let go of that string of hope that you'll get back together. Trust me, no matter how badly a break up ends, when you're that attached to someone, you can't help but hope she comes crawling back, realizing her mistakes. Don't hold on to that. Consider her gone forever, never coming back into your life. The sooner you let go of that shred of hope, the easier it is to move on.-Spend quality time with friends. This is basically a given, but tell them before hand that you don't want to talk about relationship stuff, and I'm sure they'll be more than happy to just have a good time. Go out, have fun, and start getting back into your daily groove.I know the list is short and simple, but it really is the best way that I know of. Turn to your friends for support. I don't recommend going for a rebound girl or anything, for that may only hurt her. Just cleanse your room, know that she won't ever come back, and be with your guy friends. Good luck.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (6 November 2010):
 Well you need to cut all contact with her delete her number and ask her not to contact you for the time being as you need space, delete her email and any online profiles that she may have, the only way you are going to get better is if you remove everyway you can contact her.
Obviously you are going to need time aswell, go out with your friends and take your mind of things. Try and keep yourself busy, take up new hobbies or maybe even join new clubs or classes and meet new people. Just concentrate on your life now and what you want out of it independently. good Luck.
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