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writes:my girlfriend wants to wait to have sex when were married, how can I control my sexual desire to her and release sexual tension without masturbating Reply to this Question
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reader, Red Green 0289  +, writes (29 December 2011):
What? Is she telling you that you can't beat off till you're married because that's SEX? If so, you need to seriously reconsider this relationship, as you may very well have a seriously messed up (sexually that is) person here.
Many couples will limit sexual play prior to marriage to hand jobs, some add oral, some Evan add anal (but frankly, if you're sticking your dick up a girls ass, you're having sex folks!).
But for you to not be able to touch yourself, man, this is disturbing! She can't control you like this- it's trouble!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2011): Sorry to be so oblique, but why not masturbation? It's totally normal, and in your situation even desirable. Libido is not sinful, but part of the biological necessities of the continuation of the human race.Isn't repression of such needs going to lead to resentment? It's probably not what you want to hear, but it's the truth.
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