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She used to initiate contact all the time but now has stopped! What has happened?

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Question - (11 October 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 October 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

I was seeing this girl in another city. We went out a few times and I though we both really liked each other. I know she felt something because I was not the one that always had to initiate things. She would reach out for me or kiss me just as I would her. Then the last night I saw her she had an issue with a friend of hers and went to help him. I stayed and after she got back I saw her and then left to go home. Now she has stopped calling and texting all together. Whould could have happened that changed everything in a day?

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A female reader, helpful girl United Kingdom +, writes (11 October 2006):

helpful girl agony auntsome times people can be so confuseing 1 minute all over you the next nothing. i think what may of happened here is maybe her and the males freindship has gone further than freindship. all maybe she just realised she just didnt want to be with you any more. its preety supriseing how peoples minds change so quick. but why not text her or ring just to find out and see what she says! it will put your mind at rest then wouldnt it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2006):

easy.

She is sick of you sitting on your ass and not initating.

do you ever tell her how you feel?

do u let her know she is special?

Do u ever let her know you want to spend time with her?

if you answered "no" to any of the above then theres your answer.

she feels like you dont care enough so she is waiting for you to txt, call or intitate the contact.

if you care about her, i suggest you CALL her, organise a date, and for christs sake, take her some flowers and or chocolate, stat!

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