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writes: hi my friend was dating this girl but she dumped him for someone completely different. he still likes her but she won't go near him she treats him like he don't exist. his mom is friends with her mom and she acts like she really don't care. is there any way to tell him that she's not right? Reply to this Question |
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reader, jn +, writes (1 September 2006):
 Sadly you can only think from a far. Telling her the truth will be like talking to a wall. My sister treats her husband like complete garbage, and he is the best thing that ever could have happened to her. But you know what? The more I tell her the madder she gets at me.
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (1 September 2006):
 The sad thing is, people in love will not listen to anyone telling them it's not right. They just have to live out their own mistakes and then learn the lesson for themselves. We all have to do this a few times before we learn that people will hurt us and use us, but we have to move on and not give them the satisfaction of wrecking our next relationship.
Talk to him though, let him know you're there for him. Just tell him that you know she's no good for him but you know he's not going to listen and let him know you'll be there when he finally realises that she is messing him around.
That's really all you can do, without completely taking over his life. I know it's hard to see someone you love making such a big mistake but we all have to make them or we'd never learn a lesson.
Good luck
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