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writes: Hey i was with my girlfriend for 1 year and about 4 months, both 16 it went well till on the 9 months. it was all tearing apart she told me to stop smoking pot so i did and i found out she was taking pills everyday since then its never been the same so i left her and now have sex with her and i want her back but i am not sure as i am joining the army.help? Reply to this Question
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reader, camille  +, writes (13 November 2006):
 It sounds like your girlfriend was being a hypocrite. Maybe if you both lay off the drugs you could give it a go, but having sex with an ex isn't really very respectful to each other. If you really care about her, talk to her, make some sacrifices for each other and see how it goes. If you're thinking of joining the army, I don't think they'll be too impressed with drugs either, in fact I think they did random testing? Might as well give up now.
Give yourself time away from both weed and the girl, when your head's clear you may still want her, so then make a move. (If you continued refraining from smoking pot, forgive my presumptions).
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