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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:I have been in a relationship with my partner for 7 years. We have two small children. We are great friends however we are best friends not lovers anymore. My partner is very easy going and rarely raises her voice. A few months ago I meet a woman and began an affair with her. This woman is brass and full of jealously even though she says she is not. She is a huge flirt with others. Our affair has been going on for 5 months. I fell in love with her and was going to move out to be with her. She has told me how much she loves me but questions everything I do and constantly calls me a liar. We have horrible arguments over nothing. She tells me if I am not out of my relationship with my partner by May she is gone. She has gotten drunk and called me horrible names because I would not let her drive. She has flirted with my coworkers and made them uncomfortable. But when we are together and not fighting the chemistry and sex is amazing. I kept telling myself we argue so much because we are hiding. On the other hand I think the relationship is toxic and I deserve to be treated this way because I had the affair.My partner is a wonderful person. She knows about I slept with my lover and wants us still to work it out. She does not know I am love with this other person. I do love my partner and she is a great mother to my children. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008): In my opinion, you don't deserve a woman at all.The mother of your children deserves nothing but respect. You also need to be a better role model for your kids.The only thing going for the relationship with the "other woman" is the sex. There will never be trust and I seriously doubt you love each other, It's nothing more than lust.Make sure your wife and kids are looked after, lock yourself in a room for the rest of your life and start using your hand.
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reader, Dawnie  +, writes (25 April 2008):
 Well on one hand you have a partner who is a great woman and mother and then you have this bit on the side who sounds like a complete loser and has no idea how to behave socially. I think you have answered your own question haven't you?
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