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She seems to be ignoring me - do I leave things or keep trying to make contact?

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Question - (5 June 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 June 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have been friends with this girl for just under a year and we have always got on well uintill recently. We have both changed jobs and do not see each othr as much as we used too. I do not see her as anything other tha a friend and havce always made this clear. She recently went through a rough time and I gave her a lot of support. I phoned her up and she never called me back one time and we had an argument which resulted in her saying I was crowding her and to give her space. I left it a week and never heaard from her and so sent a couple of text messages which she did not reply to I have just bumped into her in the pub and it was all she could do to say hello. I feel really bad that we do not seem friends any longer and would love to sort things out but also feel used as I gave her so much support and do not feel I have done anything to justify being ignored. I am not certain but I think other people are interfering and saying things to her I am worried that if I try and make contact again she will feel uncomfortable and I will make things worse. Should I just leave things well alone and not bother to sort things out or try and make contact again if so how do I do it with out making things worse we do not have any mutual freinds to act asd a go between. I f any one can help it would be great.

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A male reader, nologo Ukraine +, writes (6 June 2007):

nologo agony auntSomething changed for her, but not for you.

Don't contact her now at least for a while.

Maybe "other people are interfering and saying things to her".

It is really bad for you that you didn't have mutual friends.

Now about "we had an argument which resulted in her saying I was crowding her and to give her space".

You should have resolved that argument as soon as possible.

Maybe you missed your chance and it's already too late now.

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A female reader, flower girl United Kingdom +, writes (6 June 2007):

flower girl agony auntTo be honest babe why waste your energy on someone thats going to treat you like this after all you have done is be there for her, forget about her she is not worth your attention.

Take care.xx.

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