She seems to be ignoring me - do I leave things or keep trying to make contact?

A male age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have been friends with this girl for just under a year and we have always got on well uintill recently. We have both changed jobs and do not see each othr as much as we used too. I do not see her as anything other tha a friend and havce always made this clear. She recently went through a rough time and I gave her a lot of support. I phoned her up and she never called me back one time and we had an argument which resulted in her saying I was crowding her and to give her space. I left it a week and never heaard from her and so sent a couple of text messages which she did not reply to I have just bumped into her in the pub and it was all she could do to say hello. I feel really bad that we do not seem friends any longer and would love to sort things out but also feel used as I gave her so much support and do not feel I have done anything to justify being ignored. I am not certain but I think other people are interfering and saying things to her I am worried that if I try and make contact again she will feel uncomfortable and I will make things worse. Should I just leave things well alone and not bother to sort things out or try and make contact again if so how do I do it with out making things worse we do not have any mutual freinds to act asd a go between. I f any one can help it would be great.

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