Hi , Me and another lad are the only 15 year olds around our area and the girls are all 12-13. So we only see them. We both fell in love with the same 13 year old but she goes out with my mate. But now her best mate (12) wanted to date him and keeps following me and kissing me everywhere - I think she is making him jealous (trying, he ain't caring) but I think she is enjoying it now and I nearly kissed her back. I keep fantasising about her now and the other day she asked me out but I said no. But I saw her in a short skirt the other day and I cannot get her out of my head. She came in my house and she put her hand down my trousers to my bum. She felt it and she was on top of me. She seduced me in her skirt and we had sex. A few times and now we are crazy In love but I know this is wrong but we keep having sex and I cannot stop. I think she is so hot - What Can I do?
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reader, communicatrix +, writes (18 June 2005):Here's what you can do: stop. Right now. Just stop. You think you can't, but believe me, you can. No, it's not easy, but it's simple: you are young enough yourself, but she is a child—a very precocious child, but a child, nevertheless. She's playing a sad, dangerous game and you're participating in it and you know you shouldn't. So stop. You're not "crazy in love"; you're a bunch of kids playing around at stuff even adults shouldn't and someone is going to get hurt.
So please, for the love of everything that's good, just stop. Tell her you're sorry, you care about her and because of that, while she may not understand it, you have to stop having sex. Then stay away. Take cold showers, or find yourself some magazines and wank when the urge overcomes you. Unearth some new pal to hang out with, or if there really is no one, hang out by yourself and either take up reading and get really smart or find a time-consuming new interest that will get you up and out of a place where there is NO ONE to hang out with. You will have a life, just maybe not now.
But stop. You're scrambling your own brains and hers, too. This is not love; love doesn't work this way. I know you think I'm a full of crap old lady for saying it, but trust me, this much I know. And whether you believe it or not, the reason I'm saying all this is because I'd like you to both have a shot at real love someday. So please—please please please, STOP!
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reader, pops +, writes (18 June 2005):STOP ! What you are doing is a crime, and can land you in jail. These girls are below the age of consent in most jurisdictions. That means that they can't " legally " seduce you, or consent to having sex. They are the victims, regardless of their behavior, and you are the villans. You are also pedophiles. You will be branded a sex offender the rest of your life, and be required to register as a sex offender with the police for the rest of your lives. You may be restricted in where you can live. If you are not listening to the news, start. Every day, someone is crusading against pedophiles, and demanding life sentences for offenders. WAKE UP ! Just because girls have an itch, does not mean that you are suppose to help them scratch it! Could you possibly not have been aware of the MICHAEL JACKSON trial that has been going no for more than 2 months? That could be you, without his money to hire good lawyers. pops
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