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Sparkey_500
writes:She says she needs Time, buts says she loves meI was going out with this girl for a couple of months, now i no that it doesn't seem like a long time but we just clicked. We stated talking on myspace, then i was over her house the next day. we didn't do anything just talked and watched movies. which was nice. and a couple of days later, it was official.I've known her for a long time, we did work together (3 years ago) thats also when we first dated but that didn't last more then two weeks, and plus we were both rather immature. And from the two months we where together i found out that the reason the 2 week relationship broke up was because she didn't want me to get into trouble with my folks.Well thats the background story,My problem is that we broke up last weekend, and i can't stop thinking about her, should i wait for her or move on? she said that she needed some herself time and that she has "big feelings towards me" quote. At the moment alot is going on in her life.1. she moving out, 2. just getting back to work 3. Family issues, 4. she recently broke up with her last b/f, badly.What should i do, i understand her problems, and accept that she needs time, but what should i do? Wait for her, if so what can i do to take my mind off her, or move on?BTW.. I've had some bad relationship issues with another girl, and i think its affecting this relationship. the previous girl cheated on me three times before i ended. and i feel that i have trust problems. one final comment is that i seem to over think things and internaly get jealous.Anywho what do you guys think about my problem?
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reader, Butterflyfly  +, writes (6 September 2007):
 to put your mind at peace, give yourelf a time frame, a couple of months or so, in which you play her tune. after that if things are still a mess between you two, you can hand on heart move on with all the questions answered for you.
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reader, Butterflyfly +, writes (6 September 2007):
Definately give her time and let her know you support her and you understand her problems. it's not like she's given you a silly excuse for taking it easy. it sounds she has a lot on her plate now BUT, even so, she decided to let her know she has big feelings for you. I don't believe she would say that just to make htings complicated. I say support her and after a while see if positive things happen in her life and between you two, but don't dismiss her, not yet. All the best
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