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She says she is getting "tired down there". Is this because she is dry or her organ is fatigued?

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Question - (6 May 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 7 May 2008)
A male United States age 22-25, anonymous writes:

I have a question about fingering a girl. Theres this girl I've been fingering and sometimes she orgasms and others not. But the times when she doesn't she claims that after a while she is getting "tired downstairs" so I'm wondering if that means her vagina is getting too dry or if the organ is fatigued?

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A female reader, Kimaxsi United States +, writes (7 May 2008):

I just mean mix it up in the way you masturbate her, you can try sex toys of all shapes and sizes, use your mouth and tongue, and here is a page of fingering techniques XD I hope this will help

http://www.sexinfo101.com/pw_fingeringtechniques.shtml

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico + , writes (7 May 2008):

Danielepew agony auntHere's my suggestion, in honor of a sage lady:

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/advice-to-young-men-about-young-women.html

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2008):

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What would you suggest as far as improving technique so that she doesn't get "tired"

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A female reader, Kimaxsi United States +, writes (6 May 2008):

Well it could be causing discomfort, she could have gotten too over-stimulated and now its bordering on painful happens sometimes, could be you've been rubbing her the wrong way and of course it could be a friction issue. Sometimes I know I feel just plain sore, then its not enjoyable. Might be that she is looking for stimulation elsewhere for you to mix things up a bit. Maybe she wasn't really even in the mood to be fingered or maybe not in the mood at all. If she suffers from vaginal dryness use some lubricant it should help, and mix it up. Sometimes men get a bit rough and their sensitive parts! Be thankful she tells you this and doesn't suffer through it, maybe she can be more specific? Tell you what she wants and how she likes it and such.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico + , writes (6 May 2008):

Danielepew agony auntWhen she says that she's getting tired, she's telling you like it is: she's not enjoying it. You didn't please her those times.

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