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writes: my gf tells me it might be over and that she does not feel how she use to and as recently moved back to her mums, i know we are so good together and we can have a great future i love here dearly, y cant my mistakes be forgiven and for her to let me show her what she really means to me...im mad about her and love her madly im 99% sure she still overs dispite whats happened..... Reply to this Question
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (25 January 2006):
 I think you need to give her some space to think about whatever issues she has on her mind. If she does love you, she'll come back to you in her own time and you can start working things out. Pestering her to come back will do either of you any good, as, even if she does come back, it will be for the wrong reasons and is very likely to fail again.
I know it's hard to give space to someone you love but if this is what she wants, you should respect those wishes if you ever want your relationship to be saved. Good luck and be patient, if she wants it enough, she'll come back.
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reader, sara87 +, writes (25 January 2006):
 firstly you cant force your girlfriend to want to be with you,because you'll both end up very unhappy. seeing as she has moved back to her mothers you need to give her some time to sort out her head and allow her to work out what she wants without putting presure on to her. tel her to arrange when she wants to see you and just give her some space lether see you are not going to force her in to something and show her you dont want to presurise her. let her know your there for her and you love her enough to accept her desicion. its going to be a tough time for you but you have to let her find her own way. god luck hun.
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