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She plays hard to get, but what's this woman trying to accomplish?

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Question - (13 December 2015) 4 Answers - (Newest, 16 December 2015)
A male Australia age 30-35, *wizzy writes:

My work just keeps getting interesting with these cougars.

So there's this good looking one who likes to play hard to get but then again if there's a work function she's always standing close to me OR the really weird part she makes sure she chats to me every week.

I don't like dwelling on a woman's mind because it's a mine field in my opinion (Calm down ladies I have 4 sisters and they find that comment funny) but to ask the ladies here, what's this woman trying to accomplish?

On one occasion she told me private things like how she can't have fun in a small town without being judged and how she finds it comfortable to talk to me and to be honest she's real bitchy at the guys at work and they really dislike her but she doesn't do it to me.

From what I can detect I'd say she's very lonely. Anyway help me out here ladies.

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A male reader, Dwizzy Australia +, writes (16 December 2015):

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Thanks guys I took your advice I ignored her which didn't go down well gave me quite some attitude but now we have aa Christmas party today and she wants me come along with her in her car under the guise that she won't be drinking.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2015):

Some women are teasers, they like to keep a guy dangling on a string.Ignore her and let her keep teasing.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2015):

If she's bitchy and cold to everybody else maybe she's a very guarded person, maybe she doesn't like getting close to other people but she seems to like you.

I think she's the kind of woman who doesn't like to get close to people but finds it very easy to talk to you. She's starting to open up and tell you things she wouldn't tell others.

I think she's torn because she would like to maybe have a fling with you but is obviously worried what others think of her and is afraid that people will talk about her behind her back as you are a lot younger.

Bitchy women put on a front because they don't want to be taken for a fool and would prefer to be mean to others before anybody can be mean to them.

Don't overthink it, that's just the way she is. Its not so much hard to get but possibly a bit nervous of what others think.

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A female reader, janniepeg Canada + , writes (13 December 2015):

janniepeg agony auntShe's implying if she wants some fun, that person would be you but it's hard because people would talk. If your question is to do it or not, I would say no but it's flattering that she likes you as a coworker. Maybe she's not bitchy with you because you are productive and hard working. Just fantasize, don't work out anything in real life.

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