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anonymous
writes:Hi everyone, I was with a lady for 3 months that had been left by her husband after a 15 year marriage. (her second failed marriage) We enjoyed 3 months of fun, pleasure, talks and meeting the family. After 3 months she felt I was too nice, not boyfriend material and she simply wanted to be friends. I was sad, reluctantly agreed and went on my way. We exchanged a couple of texts after this and then I moved on to heal by myself. I felt sad and decided to look after myself. 6 months later, I receive an email from her telling me how I was rude, she was disappointed in me that I hadn't acknowledged her, she was not happy with my behaviour, that I had ignored her.I will not answer as I have moved on in my own way. To recap, I had enjoyed our time together, had pleasure, was upset she didn't want me and feel I did nothing wrong. Please does anyone have any thoughts as to why a person would blame the one they weren't interested in? She made it clear she didn't want me, so I obliged. Why would she feel hurt and disappointed?All help appreciated, Thank you, xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2008): my ex partner has done the same thing to me,didnt want to be with me made that so clear so i moved on yet he sends me horrible mesages,im totaly clueless why
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2008): She sounds very mixed up and I think you have done the right thing to stay away from her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2008): Some women can be very confusing, quite the enigma, and she would appear to be one of them. It doesn't surprise me that she's had two failed marriages!
You did right not to answer her. Steer well clear. Something not quite right with her brain. Possible bunny boiler. Maybe even a psychopath.
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reader, meforyou +, writes (8 October 2008):
I think maybe this lady wanted you to be more begging to get with her? You never know.
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