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writes:hi,I was meeting up with a girl a few months ago that had just broken up with her boyfriend. We really liked eachother but I could tell she wasn't over her boyfriend. Although I could tell she really liked me I could see that she would probably go back 2 her ex as he's her first love and she's been with him a few years. She is so nice and is gorgeous, and the situation has really bugged me for ages because, her boyfriend cheated on her and I know if she hadn't been with him for so long I would be with her.Anyway, just recently she has had a new job, working with my best friend's girlfriend and they spoke about me briefly. She is still with her boyfriend but out of nowhere she asked my mates misses if I still remember her. Just wondering if this means anything or am I clutching at straws?lol.It's really funny how this girl always keeps popping into my life, I sometimes feel I really should be with her. Now she's got this job with my best mate's girlfriend I'm thinking about her all the time again. It's a really obscure job too which is near where I live, which makes it even more coincidental. Should I get my friend's girlfriend to say something that I still like her or not bother?
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reader, Hopeful Romantic  +, writes (6 October 2008):
 You don't know that they are happy. If they broke up and got back together - that tells me they may not be happy. So, just tell your friends girlfriend that you do like her friend and ask her if she wouldn't mind mentioning it to that girl and then have your friends girl give you follow up details as to what she said when she told her that you like her.
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reader, samson +, writes (6 October 2008):
samson is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshe knows i like her because we were really close 2 getting together a few months ago but she went back 2 her bf.
my friends girlfriend thinks she may not have realised just how much i liked her tho. i dunno wot to do because she is still with that guy, but im not sure if her asking my friends gf if i remember is a good sign. wot u think? i feel it is a good sign because if i didnt like sum1 i wouldnt bother asking, but on the other hand she is still with that guy.
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reader, Hopeful Romantic +, writes (6 October 2008):
Yes, tell her to inform the girl! You've got nothing to lose - you either gain a girlfriend, or it takes a while, but better the girl know you like her, then never knowing, or else you'll never get your chance w/ her, she has to know!
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reader, cheekyme +, writes (6 October 2008):
 Go for it, tell her how you feel, who knows all could go well, and letting her know how you feel is better than thinking for the rest of your life ' i wonder what might have happend ' and then regreting not saying anything, so just go for it.
oh and GOOD LUCK!!!
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