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writes: I was in a beautiful lesbian relationship (or so I thought so), then about a month ago she broke up with me. She is bipolar and currently not taking her meds. She says that she was unhappy for the past three months but i know that it is because we were having some financial problems and i was miserable and was making her miserable. But no one is happy when they are having money problems. Anyways, she moved out of the city of Dallas and move to Houston (about 4 hours away from Dallas) with her new girlfriend and is living with her and her parents in her parents house. She still calls me and tells me that she still loves me and cares for me. My question is if it doesnt work out with this girl, should I take her back? I think that she is going through an episode and is only having "false happiness" with this new girl since it is a rebound love. Any thoughts or opinions would be greatly appreciated. I love and miss her dearly and it is frustrating because I want her back.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (18 January 2006):
 Doesn't sound like she wants back. If the other relationship doesn't work and she wants to start up with you then it's a decision only you can make. I suggest you keep moving on with your life, however.
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reader, vinny +, writes (18 January 2006):
 Mate the way you need to see this whole thing is to not depend on anyone but yourself, i know its hard when your lovedup but at the end of the day the only person you can trust is yourself, not saying you cant trust her but noone can control sumone else and the more you try to the worse itll make it.
I have the same problem where ill get sum sort of issue stuck in my head and ill keep bangin on about it until its all fuckdup but its just self destructive in the end like i dont wanna be happy, basically you could get your head round it and be more than happy with this girl or drive both of you mad and end up at square one......ive fuckd up so many times just remember the less you have a go at her the more itll work to your advantage.
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reader, pds2005uk +, writes (18 January 2006):
I know how you feel. My ex-girlfriend came to me after her ex-boyfriend at the time was beating her up and I was a lucky escape for her. I found that we couldn't live together as a couple because she was too full-on and I didn't live my space being invaded. Eventually she left me to go back to her ex-boyfriend but she is still thinking of me. Last night he hit her because he is still suspicious of me still seeing her and I have moved on and found another g/f. I still love her but do I take her back because I fear her safety with her violent partner.
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