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writes:Me and my girlfriend are virgins and want to give it to eachother sometime soon, she is 14, i am 17, so im pretty sure that is illegal in the state of georgia, but we are so in love and really want to.how dumb am i for taking this risk with her? Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for all your advice, i know what you mean, we could wait and everything but im also moving over the summer, i'll still see her but not as much and another factor is, once she is legal, we would still get im as much trouble, i'll be over 18 and her parents wont allow it, she comes from a religous family
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2008): If you are truly in love, then waiting untill you have both achieved the legal age of consent will not be a challenge in the slightest. What you desire to do is illegal throughout the entire United States of America, as well as the majority of the so-called Western World. I am a firm believer that the emotion of love can manifest itself at any age, provided the individuals have the necessary emotional and intellectual maturity to experience it earlier in life. If you both have that maturity to love on another, then you also have the sense to not endanger yourselves legally or physically.In your state, the legal age of consent is 17. Two to three years (depending on how far into her 14th year she is) is not a long time at all to wait and, if you do, you will find it a far more rewarding experience for waiting.
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reader, oldfool  + ♥, writes (8 May 2008):
 I would wait. Does "love" = "hey, let's jump in bed, quick!"?
She's only 14, you're only 17. I know the hormones are running overtime at that age, but you sound like a child looking at an icecream: "I love ice cream and I want to eat that ice cream right now! To hell with it, I'm gonna eat it 'cause I feel like it!" She's not an ice cream and she's not going to melt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008): If you two really do want to do it, then go for it. As long as it is consentual then there is nothing wrong with it. Folow your emotions and do it safely.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2008): Well you're not dumb for asking anyway.I have to say though, its something that I would personally not do as its risky and sex just makes things very complicated. It does.And when you start having sex you need to check up on your health regularly so you can continue enjoying it, And in your case, both of you are still dependant of someone, your parents probably, and I cant think of many parents who would feel confortable with their underage child having such a complicated relationship when they're supposed to be preocupied about growing up properly and having fun. ;) You'll have plenty of time for sex when its the right time, seriously.
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reader, sofiamorgan  + ♥, writes (7 May 2008):
 How dumb are you? I'd say seriously dumb! Sorry to be harsh but get real!!
1) She is underage and that makes it illegal
2) Have you even thought about protection?
3) STI's? Pregnancy?
If you are really in love with each other then you will wait, having sex for the first time is a very emotional time.
If you feel fine with all of the above then I guess its your choice, but if it were me I wouldn't do it, I would wait.
Sorry if I sound a little crazy but thats what I think...
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