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She ignores me for months then flirts with me, what should I do?

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Question - (7 September 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 September 2012)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I met this girl and we talked to each other for awhile at first and even said that we like each other..but than she just stopped talking to me all of a sudden and i saw on facebook that she's talking to this other girl. so i decided to forget about her

Anyways, we didnt talk to each other for a month after that and she messaged me out of the blue saying how shes sorry that she didnt talk to me cause her phone wasn't working which i thought was bs, but i messaged her back anyways and we talked for a few days,then she just stopped talking to me again, i also saw on her fb that she was still talking to the other girl.I didnt talk to her for about a week after that and she randomly messaged me yesterday saying "Hey beautiful" and she flirted with me all day today, but then she stopped talking to me again.

I really dont understand this girl. she goes from completely ignoring me for months to randomly flirting with me...and i still dont know the situation with the other girl.what do you guys think i should do?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2012):

Hi,

Anyone who shows interest in you but then blanks you SHOULD NOT be considered a potential partner. Do yourself a favour, move on to more caring people and you'll find that someone who likes you and treats you with respect. Good luck!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2012):

What is it you don't understand?

She shows interest, then obviously she thought she found someone better, that didn't work out now she's back to you. You're her fallback girl OP. Second best.

What do I think you should do? Easy if you're really desperate and don't mind being treated like a fool just to get some action then keep playing her game.

If you self-respect and aren't the type of person to be played then get rid of her, she's made it clear what she thinks of you and even lies about her phone being on the fritz. She's a player OP, trying to play you. Whether you want to be played or not is your choice.

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