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*kiki
writes:I have this female friend whom i really like and plan on getting into a relationship with. i went on a walk with her on sunday which was really worth it. after then i called, texted and even saw her, i noticed she hasn't been so friendly, jovial as she used to be towards me. the usual delightfulness in her tone when i call isn't there anymore. what should i do? do u think she's playing mind games? Or am i making myself cheap by calling, texting her frequently? Or am i getting disturbed over nothing?
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reader, Okiki +, writes (18 February 2012):
Okiki is verified as being by the original poster of the questionGuyz,thanks a lot for answering my question.one thing your answers had in common is PATIENCE.i'll try to give her that space,but it'll be a little difficult for me because i do like to call this lady & see her also.but do you think giving her this space will make our friendship grow cold
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reader, Okiki +, writes (18 February 2012):
Okiki is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOkay,i got the advice,but i did make up my mind not to call her for a while,but i have been bumping into her recently & it's making me look like i'm stalking her.do you think that if i do bump into her again,i shouldn't bother giving her much attention,should i treat her like she's just one normal girl?how do i make her feel my presence and absence?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2012): First of all you should definitely stop calling and texting frequently. It does put women off, specially since you're not even in a relationship with her yet. Leave her enough space so she has to look forward to your calls or texts. Let her miss you.
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reader, Ayan Ganguly  +, writes (18 February 2012):
 Well you have come up with the right set of questions and either of them is definitely applicable...She might be playing mind games...may be she wants to see your reaction when she doesn't show compassion towards you..if it is so..you should keep on texting her for a couple of days maybe and stop after that if she doesn't reciprocate your feelings..give her some time after all no two people can walk consistently at the same pace.If after a couple of days she acts the way she is doing now you should stop calling her up because if you don;t she would conclude you are 'despo' and she would consciously create a distance with you.You might also be disturbed over nothing..and the sensible answer to all the queries is give it some time and see how things work out...don't rush have patience...you need a lot of patience to start a relationship.all the best
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