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She has finally contacted me. Now what should I do?

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Question - (16 June 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 16 June 2009)
A male United States age 18-21, *uckynmbr7s writes:

I've been talking to this girl a while and at first it seemed like magic then suddenly she started distancing herself from me. After a while it started to seem like I was the only person tring to make contact. I decided that maybe she just doesnt feel that way. So i stopped calling to see if she would call me. After about 2 weeks she finally text me late at night. What should i do?

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A female reader, Samii United Kingdom + , writes (16 June 2009):

Samii agony auntYeah, i agree with guillaume, it depend on what the text says. You know some girls like playing hard to g et maybe she was doing that?

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A male reader, guillaume  United Kingdom +, writes (16 June 2009):

guillaume  agony auntHi,

Well, what did the text say? Was it a formal, polite, friendly, potential gf type?

Please let us know! Thanks, G.

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A female reader, ilovebowsandcherries United Kingdom +, writes (16 June 2009):

ilovebowsandcherries agony auntwell what do you want to do? do you want to be with her? why not ask her why she distanted herself from you? if she's going to mess you about then don't go there i mean there could be all sorts of reasons why she distanted herself from you. but if she does it often then maybe she's not worth bothering with.

hope this helps.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2009):

well in this situation..im a girl and what i have to say about this is that you should ask her why she distanced herself. see if she is able to give an answer. i would not talk with a guy for a while only if i think we are talking too much with each other or if i figured that i do not like him. but with the girl you are talking to im unsure what is running through her mind.just ask her questions and you may get the answer to your question.

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