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writes:grrr, how do i start? Theres a girl, I realy like her.. Shes single because all the guys shes been with treat her like crap and she wants someone that wouldnt ( aka me ). But how do I get her??? We have a hug everyday./. but i dont see her much because were in all different classes at school. But she gives me my daily hug.It has to be a start right? So people how do I get the girl of my dreams???? and let her give me a chance, so she can see im not like the other guys.Any comments help/advice much apriciated. =]*note from moderator: Please try to use proper capitalization and punctuation in the future. Reply to this Question |
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reader, Dr Pete + ♥, writes (17 June 2007):
 You don't want to become TOO much of a friend to her, as she will see you as a supportive person whom she can be emotional with and she will effectively see you more of a women than a man or potential boyfriend.
Once she sees you like this there is little chance of her having any physical chemistry towards you. You need to be confident, go out there and make it so that she wants to become your girlfriend.
Stop with the girly hugs, don't listen to too much of her man stories and instead show her your confident, funny and masculine side, they are the things that will turn her interest in to you to be more physical.
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reader, ladybug  +, writes (17 June 2007):
 Ok, so you like her alot? the best thing that you can do is tell you're feelings to her, there's nothing more romantic in this world than a guy who confide his hidden feelings for a girl! well, it's not that easy iknow, but its a good start. If you think it wont work, just stay beside her at all time, your presence will absolutely melt her off. hope I help. Gudluck!
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reader, vickiii07 +, writes (17 June 2007):
 Hey.
I think you need to make friends with this girl,
before a relationship can devlop.
You need to gain trust from her so always keep her secrets.
Get her msn its a great start for building foundations.
Also once you know her a little better arrange to meet up out of school.
Also pay her compliments it takes a hurt girl a long time to build trust and be confident again.
Hope i helped =]
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reader, Keboo2011  +, writes (17 June 2007):
First get to know her find out things like her favorite color/place/person but frist you have to become real close freinds like she depends on you to help her then you tell her how you feel and if she says she wants to keep it as freinds. still try to keep the relastionship the same as before you told her.....
I hope i could of been a help to you
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reader, unknown1234 +, writes (17 June 2007):
hiya. its ganna be hard for this girl to start trusting guys again, dont rush anything take it slow just talk to her get more closer to her, dont scare her off by telling her how you feel yet. give it tym.
i hope it works out you seem lyk a very nyc guy. tc x x x x
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (17 June 2007):
 I think you have got to make a friend out of her, chat to her and ask her things like what are her interests, what does she like doing at weekends ect. Build up her confidence in you and show her that you are a nice guy and would not treat her like the guys that treated her badly. I do think she likes you and you stand a good chance with her, but take things nice and slow, otherwise you will risk frightening her off.
Good luck
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