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writes:My new girlfriend broke up with her then boyfriend because she wanted to get with me, she told me she had liked me for 5 years and I had felt the same but neither of us had thought to say anything. The problem is the night before I asked her out she had a 1 night stand with a friend, she's only told me now after 2 and a 1/2 months and says its the biggest mistake of her life, but its really getting to me. Should I let it go?
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reader, Ria1 +, writes (15 February 2010):
Yes let it go, after all she wasn't with you at the time she did it, she was totally free to do what she wanted, if she was with you, then yer it would be different! Just enjoy being with her, otherwise, there's no point!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010): Should you let it go? Yes.
Can you let it go? That's a different question.
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reader, supermum +, writes (15 February 2010):
 defo let it go babe, she is sorry, and you were not together....
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (15 February 2010):
Very much let it go. She is clearly regretting what happened and is hoping that you will understand she made a big mistake. Also remember that it was before you were going out. She made a mistake and she is asking you to let it go and understand that it was just a mistake.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010): yes, you should let it go its her regret for her reasons.. but it does not need to be a relationship regret. This was before you two were together.. Hind sight is always 20/20. We all have regrets and we move forward by learning from our mistakes and moving forward. Let it go and enjoy the relationship that you two have waited so long for.
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