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She had a lesbian encounter previous to us, now Im having trouble taking things further!!

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Question - (7 August 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 7 August 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

My Girl friend had a lesbian experience before I got with her, which I knew about. However I didn't intend on having a relationship with her and now a year down the line i'm having trouble taking the relationship any further because of this. What should I do?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2006):

grow up-only joking!it was just an experince, read the kinsey report then you will see the normality(common occurence) of what christian societies(and others) dogmatically refute as abnormal.this wasnt even a gay relationship or a series of them. does taking it further mean sex or commitment, or both. To me it sounds vague. Is this because it ruins your fantasy of a pure woman that you can bring home to mom and dad (and one day dress in white at the altar) as parents are rarely squeaky clean themselves. Get over it by getting your own back and having a fiddle over some gay porn yourself, or just see what it is about her that you love and accept the bits you dont as a compromise for getting the bits you do. trust me perfection does not exist!

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