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writes: I have been involved off and on for the past four and a half years with this man. I know our relationship didn't get started out on the right foot because he was at the end of his marriage. Well, the last year was more off than on. We both dated other people and often he and i got into very heated arguments. He's now been dating an alcoholic for the past 9 months. It's a bad relationship because she keeps on breaking it up with him and she doesn't want him to have any contact with me. In August, she got her second DUI.The last time we spoke (3 weeks ago), he said he wanted to get to know me differently because neither of us want to keep on repeating the past. He claims he wants to go play a game pool, but one of us bring along a friend so we're not alone.Oh, yeah, he's not going to tell her because she doesn't want him to have any contact with me.A part of me feels this is wrong. I don't want to 'sneak' around. If he can't be honest with her, then why do it?And I am begining to doubt what he said. We spoken a few times but it was just..really casual conversation. I just..don't konw what to do.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (17 October 2006):
 You were his bit on the side at the end of his marriage now he wants you sneak around behind his girlfriend's back? Ding Dong hear any bells?
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