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writes:I met a girl in my guidance class at my college and we have exchanged email to each other last friday. I kind of like this girl and i told her to email me. After 2:00 PM, I did email her about emailing me after 6:00 PM because I was eating my dinner at 5:00. Finally, when I check my emails, she didn't reply. I know that she had to go to work, but she promised me that she will email me last friday. Do you think that she likes me, but was very busy, or do you think that I was played a fool? Reply to this Question |
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reader, Lonewolf22X + ♥, writes (13 May 2008):
Lonewolf22X is verified as being by the original poster of the question PeterPan, I concur. I am pretty sure that you have been in this situation, but oldersister, I only exchanged her my email and not my phone number. Back to you PeterPan, I will try to email her again, but if she does not answer, then that's okay.
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reader, Ask oldersister +, writes (12 May 2008):
Wow, I think you need to chill out. You can't expect someone to drop everything they are doing and respond to your email and I also wouldn't tell someone WHEN to email you, just go with the flow. I think you need to focus on getting to know her more in person and pay less attention to this email thing. What if she isn't as interested in you right now, is that so bad? What if she needs to get to know you more before she becomes more interested? Don't ruin it by coming on too strong. Talk to her more in your class and see how it goes. Take care.
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reader, Colesy11 +, writes (12 May 2008):
I wouldn't worry too much if you haven't heard yet. Something may have come up and its slipped her mind. "PeterPan" is right. Don't rush into emailing her back too soon. Take some more time and read the signs from her if it makes you feel more comfortable than jumping straight in and asking her out.
Good luck!!
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reader, PeterPan + ♥, writes (12 May 2008):
I think it's WAY TOO soon to be jumping to conclusions here. Do you have any other contact info for her? Address? Cell number? If so, I'd say still remain calm then try her again no earlier than this coming Wednesday. You don't want to come across as a pest...
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