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writes: my fiance cheated on me with her ex i forgave her she now tells me she doenst love me i feel so hurt yet i love her more than life what should i do?
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reader, shania  +, writes (2 March 2006):
 When you meet someone you take a chance with them.You fall in love and hope that they feel the same...some relationships work out and some dont....its a lottery.Your fiance cheated on you and you forgave her...now she has told you that she doesnt love you anymore.Now it must feel like your heart has been ripped apart,that you cant go on without her....well you can,but it will take time.Think of it this way,if you two got married then had children...and she said she didnt love you anymore...that would be 10 times worse.You cant make her love you back...she has to feel that herself.Move on and give yourself time to heal...because you will get over her...i promise.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2006): You don't love her more than life. So stop trying make yourself believe that. You love her, yes, but that's that. Move on! Stop for a sec and look back on your path. What did you go through to get to where you are? Who were the people in your life? What did they do to contribute to your growth and influence?If I were in your shoes, I'd let her go, then ball my eyes out and probably go take a bat to something hard (like a tree) until it (my bat) breaks, then move on. That is the fraility of love.
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