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male
age
30-35,
*oss Robertson
writes:Ive been with this girl for 2 years + we where going fine we loved each other endlessly but on sunday she told me "i need a break" and that she loves me and hopes we can get back together. she says her heads all a mess with whats going on with her family, her grandmother is dying she has only days, if not hours. her mom has cancer and other things, her grandpa has been having ministrokes and her family makes her do everything. i asked her straight i said "darling is your heart telling you to move on" and she said "i dont know what its telling me". ive seen her once since then when she picked her shoes up from my house we were talking and i could tell she was hurt and when she left i said love you bye and she said it back. ive told her what she means to me and i hope she relises that i truly do love her and has a hard think to herself of the good times we have had. please tell me am i a fool for waiting and hoping, i havent ate since sunday and i cant sleep at all. please help me.
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reader, Jess1ca_1988  +, writes (7 July 2009):
well it sounds like she has alot of responsibility right now and maybe she is just trying to take care of her family first. You should let her know that u want to be with her and thats what u do when u love someone and want to be with them is help them with everything even their family so just drop in on them and take them some things that u know they could use like drinks and food or just household items. And that should show her that u want to make it work and u care about her being happy and helpin her
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