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writes: Hi, I have been in a brief relationship with a wonderful woman who was my friend beforehand. She has now ended it and wants to go back to being friends. She wants us to move in together as housemates as neither of us have our own house and rent individually. She ended it because she said she was not ready for a relationship with anyone and it scared her how close we were getting. My question is: if we move in together as housemates, will she change her mind and take things further with me or is it a bad idea? I know it has not been long but I love her so and want her back.(even before we were more than friends). Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (2 December 2006):
 If you feel that way about her than I suggest you continue to rent own your own. You were fine by yourself. It's her idea to be in the same house not yours, so obviously she has some financial problems or other problems. Think of this, what happens when she brings another guy home? How will you handle it? I'll tell you. It will break your heart. If you enjoy punishing yourself than by all means go ahead but if you enjoy your sanity don't do it. Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2006): I really think you will regret this one. what happens in the future if you meet someone and bring her back, are you going to have the bunny boiler under one roof. Or when she meets someone how will you feel? No its a naf set up that is destined to fail. I just think you should avoid this one at all cost.
take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2006): Really dumb idea, don't do it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2006): I think it would be a bad idea, I dont think your friend is being realistic.
If she didnt want to stay with you because the relationship was getting too heavy then why would she want to move in with you?.
I'm not trying to tell you she is a bad person or anything but somthing just doesnt add up here.
I would'nt reccommend that you move in together its gonna just give you mixed signals, and thats the last thing you need right now.
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