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*aisy92
writes:My girlfriend constantly wants sex, but i dont, what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, daisy92 +, writes (14 August 2010):
daisy92 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the answers, by the way i am girl. so although the first answer was good it didnt help me, but thankyou anyway. there is no particular reason why i dont want to have sex with her because i really enjoy it just not that often
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reader, Sweet-thing +, writes (14 August 2010):
 She may be confusing sex with love (women tend to do this). In a woman's mind, if a guy loves you, he'll want to have sex with you. (And unfortunately the more dangerous tought-process is that if a guy wants to have sex with you, he must surely love you too!)Since you don't have a strong sex drive, she assumes you do not love her. Therefore you will have to work extra hard to over-compesate for your low sex drive. And trust me, if you think her sex drive is high right now, just wait till she hits 30.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2010): If you have a valid reason as to why you don't want to have sex with her - please try and explain it to her.. It should be both ways and both should enjoy it equally. It can't happen one-way.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (14 August 2010):
 Talk to her about it. You don't have to have sex if you don't want to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2010): Be upfront with her, tell her you are not ready to have sexual inter course with her
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