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She always wants sex, I don't! Help!!!

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Question - (13 August 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 14 August 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 22-25, *aisy92 writes:

My girlfriend constantly wants sex, but i dont, what should i do?

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A female reader, daisy92 United Kingdom +, writes (14 August 2010):

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thanks for the answers, by the way i am girl. so although the first answer was good it didnt help me, but thankyou anyway. there is no particular reason why i dont want to have sex with her because i really enjoy it just not that often

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A female reader, Sweet-thing United Kingdom +, writes (14 August 2010):

Sweet-thing agony auntShe may be confusing sex with love (women tend to do this). In a woman's mind, if a guy loves you, he'll want to have sex with you. (And unfortunately the more dangerous tought-process is that if a guy wants to have sex with you, he must surely love you too!)Since you don't have a strong sex drive, she assumes you do not love her. Therefore you will have to work extra hard to over-compesate for your low sex drive. And trust me, if you think her sex drive is high right now, just wait till she hits 30.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2010):

If you have a valid reason as to why you don't want to have sex with her - please try and explain it to her.. It should be both ways and both should enjoy it equally. It can't happen one-way.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (14 August 2010):

person12345 agony auntTalk to her about it. You don't have to have sex if you don't want to.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2010):

Be upfront with her, tell her you are not ready to have sexual inter course with her

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