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writes:i have relationship problemi shared showed a love liquid and kamasutra gel with my finance i showed her in totol faith and lovebut i axed my feet and she didnt supspect me of using such things before because i told her i got it in exctiment and hence sharing it with you.she kept quite about it but she reacted a week later saying such things are usualy bought when cuple walk into sex shop toghtherwhy would you buy it before and keep iti got scared and i said its ok honey i got because i was alone and know i am sharing it with you.and i am sorry if bothred youbut she cant calm down and nor she is supsecting mebut she is making left and right issues of iti am on quitly trip of why i axed my own feetwhat can be going in her mind?
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reader, vishom22 +, writes (5 March 2011):
vishom22 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks above and yes axed feet i meant i invited trouble myselfsecondly thanks for above but i got stuff ie aids when i didnt meet her and hence it was with me and she didnt think that i went with another woman and bought it she just thinks that i got them alone why and if i got with a parnter than its oki dont know what she really meant what was she trying to imply and how
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2011): I don't quite understand what you mean by "i axed my own feet"? An axe is bladed tool used to cut down trees, so if you "axed my own feet", it would mean you cut your own feet with an axe. I don't think that is what you meant?
As I understand your situation, you bought love liquid and kamasutra gel (sex aids) when you went to a store by yourself. But, your girlfriend thinks you must have gone to the store with another woman, and she is suspicious that you are cheating on her with another woman?
It's impossible to prove a negative (that you are not involved with another woman), so it may be difficult to convince her of the truth, especially if she is naturally suspicious. It seems to me your only choice is to keep talking to her, tell her you are telling the truth, let her know she is the only one for you, etc. Try to keep reassuring her of the truth about how you feel about her, etc. without getting angry.
You could also try asking her what you can do to prove the truth to her. If she asks for something that is not possible, about all you can do is point out to her that it is not possible for you to do that.
Also, if the containers for the liquid and gel have not been opened, you could point this out to her and as evidence that you had not bought them for use with someone else.
Good luck.
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