A
female
age
16-17,
anonymous
writes:okay well its about my teacher for starters so here goes:i go to an all girls school and there is this certain teacher, who is a female and i love her very much. she has only been here since last september, but ever since i first met her, i knew she was special she talks to me about alot of her stuff going on in her life and i tell her alot about me also, we have a relationship with each other, that no other people have with her. she says that i am here mate and hugs me in her classroom and stuff i just really adore the woman, i thought it was just a crush, but when i dont see her or when shes away, i feel so empty without her, i ask for extra lessons just to be with her.do you think i should just confront her about how i feel im just so stuck and depressed over this. i just want some help :(much appreciated x
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reader, natasia +, writes (19 April 2008):
 I agree that I don't think you should say how you feel. Because what exactly do you feel? You really like her. She's really important in your life. She's a great FRIEND. Nothing more. So why do you need to say anything?
You need to get a bit of perspective here. Yes, you have a great friendship, and that feels good, and you feel like you need her and miss her when she's not there. It often happens that in your situation, with only other females around, you can get really attached to someone, almost with the same intensity as you might to a boy, but without the physical/sexual side of things. Don't be scared by this - it's a normal reaction. But just try to stand back a bit if you can. And you know, if you actually got a boyfriend (or just had a crush on a boy!), your teacher would probably start to seem less important. I think this is dominating your life a bit too much at the moment - you need to cool it, look elsewhere, and keep the teacher just as a (very good) friend.
Go and kiss a boy. You'll soon forget about yr teacher, I promise! : )
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reader, havark +, writes (19 April 2008):
 Well... i dont think its a good thing you telling her how you feel.
this is because she is your teacher and stuff like this can end relationships like your.
i think you should leave it a while and see how you feel in a month or two.
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