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Sexually active since recently, my bf and I have completely different fetishes, should I accept his although I do not like them?

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Question - (7 February 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 7 February 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 18-21, anonymous writes:

ive recently started to get sexually active with my new boyfriend (we were really close friends for 6 months before we got together) but it seems we have very different fetishes. for example, i absolutely hate feet and cant stand people touchin mine but he loves to suck toes. and he also likes to spank girls on their arse but when he did it to me it completely ruined the mood because i just found it to be ... well plain odd and it made me feel a bit uncomfortable which then makes me laugh, perhaps out of nerves.

should i just go with it even though i don't like it?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2008):

Hi Hunny,

You dont go with anything that makes you feel uncomfortable, These things you may find as your sex life gets more understanding between the both of you ok, But just have a chat to him love and Im sure if he cares for you he will understand, other than that hide a big wooden spoon down the side of the bed and when he least expects it slap his arse...:) Always be honest hunny and say how you feel there are many things to keep you both happy TAKE CARE WITH LOTS OF LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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