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Sex without Protection

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Question - (14 July 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 14 July 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and I had sex for the first time in our whole life without protection and he just pulled out. I feel like he didn't pull out in time because we did leave it in a couple of times. He also had ejaculated the day before. Am I pregnant? I've been having dreams of having a baby and being pregnant. Do you guys think I'm pregnant?

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A female reader, duskyrowe United Kingdom +, writes (14 July 2008):

duskyrowe agony auntJust Two words Poster..... Use Protection!!!!

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (14 July 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntWhat is even more scary, O Conner, is that most of these sweet young things have no clue as to how the human reproductive system works let alone how to take precautionary actions to avoid pregnancy and diseases. One has to wonder where the heck are their parents? Oh and yes, I blame Bill Gates.

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A female reader, O Connor Ireland +, writes (14 July 2008):

O Connor agony auntit baffles me when i come onto this site because nearly all the girls who are having fears of being pregnant, and having unprotected sex are nearly all your age - 13-15, and it just goes to show that none of you are even near mature enough to be having sex if your silly enough to be putting yourselves in that situation. my question is when will you learn? it frustrates me so much to know that girls your age are so indifferent about their health and youth that they risk getting pregnant or getting an STD - did you even think of that?

take a test, and let this be a lesson to you that if you are stupid enough to have unprotected sex at your age, then your not mature enough to be having it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2008):

Depends on your menstrual (sp!?) cycle.

Dreams don't show the future. They show whats on your mind. Your greatest desires. Or you greatest fears.

In this case I think this is your greatest fear. You should've gone to the hospital (and sitll can if its under 72 hours) to get the after morning pill. This makes, if an eggs hasn't already been fertilised, unable to stick to the wall or something, and basically you can't have a baby.

Sperm can live in there for 7 days. 1 whole week. If your really worried, after that 1 week they would've all died off. Get a pregnancy test if you can or get an older friend too if your scared and check it out. Confide in a trustworthy friend for support.

Heres some information I stole of Diovan - sorry but you're very useful!

http://www.nhsdirect.nhs.uk/index.aspx

You can also call 0845 4647 if you need emergency advice on contraception and pregnancy. Just copy that straight off her personal column.

Sorry Diovan!! But seriously use them if you want too. You don't know for certain. Find out then think about aborting it if you don't want it. To be honest, looking at your age you might want too, but its a tricky situation I can't force you onto.

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A male reader, jamesshort256 United States +, writes (14 July 2008):

i doubt it, i had sex many time with a few woman, and i got one preg only once, *she had a miscarriage* anyways, the chances of gettin preg are slim. but if u are worried about it, see a doctor and get take a preg test.

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A male reader, Wulfgrimm United States +, writes (14 July 2008):

It is very possible, You need to go take a pregnancy test. As for the dreams they are more then likely due to you being worried about being pregnant, not necisarly meaning that you actually are.

But please, your to young to have a child use protection or get on the pill.

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